Be specific
“A massage” is fine. “A 20-minute massage, redeemable any evening this winter” gets redeemed. Add when and how in the details.
Christmas love coupons
Christmas love coupons they'll actually redeem.
A love coupon is a small promise with a ticket attached: breakfast in bed, a winter walk, a day where you say yes to everything. Here are 40 ideas, plus a way to hide them inside a digital advent calendar — when your partner taps “Redeem”, you get notified.
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How to give love coupons that get used
Mix big and small
Most coupons should be easy to say yes to on a Tuesday. Keep one or two bigger ones — a night away, a cooked dinner — for the last days.
Spread them out
Inside an advent calendar, coupons work best one every three or four days, between notes and photos. It keeps each door a surprise.
Make redeeming easy
With a Lovelet, they tap “Redeem this coupon” and you get the notification — no paper to lose, no awkward “can I use this now?”.
Christmas love coupon ideas
Cosy coupons
- Breakfast in bed, no alarm
- A winter walk followed by hot chocolate
- A Christmas movie marathon — you pick all three
- A blanket-fort night with fairy lights
- One evening of baking Christmas cookies together
- A bath drawn for you, with candles and your playlist
- Wrapping all your presents for you
Romantic coupons
- A candlelit dinner I cook from scratch
- A slow dance in the kitchen to our song
- A 20-minute massage, no rushing
- A love letter, handwritten, delivered on a day you choose
- A date to see the Christmas lights downtown
- Recreating our first date
- A night away, somewhere with a fireplace
Fun coupons
- A day of yes — I say yes to (almost) everything
- Winning one argument, no questions asked
- Control of the TV remote for a whole weekend
- One ugly-Christmas-sweater photo shoot
- A board-game night where I'm not allowed to be competitive
- The last Christmas chocolate, guaranteed
- A karaoke duet of your choice
Helpful coupons
- I'll handle dinner for a full week
- A morning off — I take every chore
- Car warmed up and windows scraped on a frosty morning
- Your errands, done, with a coffee on top
- I deal with the family group chat for a day
Long-distance coupons
- A video-call date with the same dinner on both screens
- An airport pickup with a handmade sign
- Watching the same film at the same time, texting the whole way through
- A real letter by post
- Our first full day together when you land
- A playlist made only for your journey
- A good-night call, as long as you want
For New Year
- Planning next year's trip together
- A midnight kiss, guaranteed
- A new tradition of your choice
- One “no plans” Sunday every month
- A photo album of our year, made by me
- Breakfast on January 1st, hangover-proof
- A surprise date, once a season
What you can include
Love coupons with a title and details (when, how)
One-tap redeem — you're notified straight away
Hidden behind advent doors that open each day in December
Mixed with notes and photos of you two
A final gift to scratch open on Christmas morning
A private link, nothing to print
How it works
Pick your coupons
Choose from the ideas above or write your own.
Place them in the calendar
Coupons, notes and photos across 24 or 12 doors.
Send the link
They open a door each day and redeem what they like.
Frequently asked questions
What are good Christmas love coupons?
Specific, doable promises: breakfast in bed, a winter walk with hot chocolate, a Christmas movie marathon, a massage, a day of yes, or a cooked dinner. Add when it can be redeemed so it feels real.
Can I make digital love coupons instead of printing them?
Yes. In a Lovelet advent calendar, any door can be a love coupon. Your partner taps “Redeem this coupon” and you receive a notification.
How many coupons should I give?
In a 24-door calendar, 6 to 8 coupons is a good mix — the rest notes and photos. For a simple gift, 5 good coupons beat 20 generic ones.
How much does it cost?
The Christmas Advent theme is €7.99 one-time per Lovelet, no subscription.